I talked to Max about the florist costs, and mentioned the traditional action of the groom's side paying for the bridal bouquet and bridesmaids bouquets as a present to the bride on the wedding day. He didn't really say yes or no to his family paying for it, just that he understood. If anything, he'll just end up paying that part, which really doesn't make a difference, because all of our combined money is going into the wedding anyway, so who cares who actually pays for what. But I called the florist and told her that the split cost was fine, and she said that as soon as I sent her the save the date deposit she would get working on things. When I had the consultation we went over how I actually wanted everything. Here's some pictures that we based the final ideas off of. 

Boutonnieres will have lavender and green wheat, with twine tied bottoms. The only one with the small white flowers will be the groom.

And my bouquet! It follows this pattern, with lavender, greenery like eucalyptus, larger white flowers, and pink roses. The bridesmaids will have the same style, without the lavender since their dresses are lavender. And the maid of honor will have a tiny bit of lavender to showcase her.

I also bought my maids their gifts today. I'll show them when they come in!